Wednesday, December 14, 2005

The Seed story – The bitter truth


Why do we love, you should ask yourself this question before rushing in and consider yourself in love, some people say we just have feelings, so another question arises do these feelings exist because you are a passionate person and you are looking for someone to just pour your feelings into the relationship and eliminate their burden from your chest,

Or the feelings that you have were generated from someone’s existence in your life, then you ask again are they mutual, if they are , that means the seed is there, so you just have to wait for it to grow and you will see the fruits by your own eyes, but if it’s one sided, you will find that your were trying to water the sand not a seed , and will never have anything out of it.

So be careful before you start investing your feelings make sure that the seed is there, because otherwise it’s just a waste.

Islamic religion has some provisions concerning having feelings for someone, the great thing about it is that it didn’t deny the person’s right from having feelings for someone, but how to express it , that ‘s where the restrictions are. And the right ways is well known to everybody.

Love is a great feeling but it requires attention and understanding, because it’s a double edged weapon, it can hurt and it can heal… so use it very wisely.



  • At 8:40 PM, Blogger Charismatic Soul said…


    Nice blog, its my first time here and i assure you it wont be my last!

    back to your post, for me being in love is the feeling of safety.

    I feel safe knowing that the person i love, loves me back, i feel safe that if something happens to me he'll come to my rescue. So as per your post, the seed was there, we both nurtured it and its growing el7amdolelah :)

    On the other hand, its a waste of time and energy, and i cant relate to people who say that they just cant help it, its called FALLING in love, falling shows a row of actions, its not FELL in love, ya3no you wake up one day and you feel you love someone.

    Watering the sand like you said, brings pain and hurt, its a waste of time and energy, and more importantly, feelings.

  • At 11:36 PM, Blogger Nesrina said…

    Dear Charismatic Soul,

    Thanks for your valuable comment,it's very much appreciated.

    I don't want to assume but this need for safety; knowing that the one u love, loves you back is not required for everyone to start have feelings, but it's a must for me... so I do agree with you .

    I am glad that you have found the right person, wishing you all the happiness ... god bless you both.

    As for watering the sand, may god protect us all from being in such an experience :)

  • At 1:48 PM, Blogger shortcut said…

    Why do we love, you should ask yourself this question before rushing in and consider yourself in love
    it s really nice question & blog
    but i want to ask another question
    do i know how to love?coz many people cant complete relation coz they cant love or cant express love or the other has another definition to love

  • At 12:51 AM, Blogger Nesrina said…

    Dear Shortcut,

    My answer to your question "do i know how to love" is...
    Look, there is no ideal way to love, people are different… there is no “Love” manual that tells you what to do, it’s always your heart that should guide you, provided that it’s a mature heart. And after all you must know that things happen for a reason, that if things didn’t work out, it doesn’t mean that one of you has failed to communicate his/her feelings or couldn’t protect and defend his love. But may be …. The one you had feelings for is not the right one…
    Eventually you will know that there will be better arrangements ahead of you that we are not yet able to see, but they are saved for you till the right time ,,, you just have to be patient.

    All the best,


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